Ideally the reminder would look just like the reminders the calendar owner gets and appear in my reminder window, but if none of the tools can do that, then I would be interested in the add-in that will send a copy of the reminder to the delegates by email. The emails need to go to delegates, not the calendar owner (though I know I could put a rule on the owners' inbox to forward those reminder emails to the delegates-- I want to avoid that). Do you know which of the tools on the page I referred to will do that?