No one has any idea what is going on as to why certain sent emails are not showing up in the Sent Items mailbox?
This could be caused by a whole range of different things. I (obviously) can't reproduce, so helping you debug is going to be difficult.
Basics?
Please see this Microsoft Support article and reply with exactly what version of Outlook you are using.
What version of Outlook do I have? - Microsoft Support
And the exact version of Win11 you are running.
What Changed?
Were sent items being saved correctly in the past? When did you first notice the problem?
(FYI - New Outlook for Windows App auto updates once a week)
Email Account?
You have already mentioned Xfinity as your email provider. When you setup this account in New Outlook did it "auto discover" (i.e. You just put in an email and Outlook did the rest)? Or did you used the "Advanced Settings" and do the setup manually? If manual, what settings? (IMAP or POP? Servers and ports?)
>> but almost all of the missing emails were sent to people at domains for which I also have a separate email account.
Sorry. But I don't follow. Do you have multiple accounts setup in New Outlook? If so, do you send of different accounts using the "From:" dropdown?
"almost all", but not all? Any pattern to the ones that didn't make it to Sent Items?
When you are testing, are you sending the new emails from New Outlook or from the Xfinity web email interface? Whichever way you are using now, what does the reverse do?
e.g. If you send from the Xfinity web email interface, does the Xfinity Sent Items folder sync to New Outlook? If you send from New Outlook, does it sync back to the Xfinity web email interface?